Helping Children Cope with the Loss of a Pet
Losing a pet is difficult for the whole family, but it can be especially confusing for children. They may not fully understand what’s happening or know how to process their feelings. Here are some gentle ways to support them through the grief.
Be honest, but gentle
Children need clear, age-appropriate explanations. Using phrases like “put to sleep” can sometimes cause confusion — instead, explain that their pet’s body had become too tired or unwell, and the vet helped them pass away peacefully.
Encourage expression
Let children talk about their feelings, draw pictures, or write letters to their pet. This gives them a safe way to share their emotions.
Create a farewell ritual
Small ceremonies — such as lighting a candle, planting a flower, or reading a poem — help children feel involved in saying goodbye.
Keep memories alive
Make a photo album or memory box together. It can be comforting for children to look back and remember happy times.
Offer reassurance
Remind them it’s okay to feel sad, and that grieving is natural. With love and support, children learn that the bond with their pet will always live on in their hearts.
Contact Us
To find out more about how we can help you and your pet, please visit our contact page or give us a call. We’ll answer your questions with care and understanding.
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info@forgetmenot-pets.co.uk